Gay Sex and the Sauna

Britain’s gay saunas have been taken a beating in the media of late, including the sad news of a death in a Manchester sauna, while a gay campaigner is calling for them to be shut down.Read more

Is my boyfriend’s arse too tight?

When it comes to sex and relationships there is no such thing as a stupid question. Here are our answers to some of the things you asked us via the GMFA website. To ask a question, visit more

Why can’t you just be healthy?

By many accounts, we gay men are a pretty unhealthy bunch. We are much more likely to smoke than our heterosexual brothers, tend to drink more (and more often) and are many times more likely to take drugs.Read more

Would you let your sister do chemsex?

I think if my little sister was having sex with dozens of men a month, and using drugs most of those times, I’d say yeah; little sis, you have a chemsex problem.Read more

"You’re too old to be on the scene"

There’s a surprisingly complex range of emotions that hit you when your (younger) editor emails you and says: “I’m looking for an article on older gay men on the scene – you seem like the obvious person to write it.”Read more

Don't call me gay

Jacob, a 21-year-old law student from Manchester, agrees with this approach: “I just think those words seem a bit outdated and old fashioned,” he says.Read more

Bug chasing - the ‘gift’ of HIV?

Dubbed ‘bug chasers’, these men don’t fear becoming infected. They’re not even just nonchalant about the possibility – they’re actively seeking out positive men online in order to become ‘pozzed up’ with the ‘gift’ of HIV – filled with ‘bug juice’ and ‘converted’.Read more

Forever single - a never ending dating game

When it comes to relationships, gay men can be some of the most jaded humans on our overly-cynical dirt ball of a planet. Which is just typical of us *eye roll*...Read more

TRUE LIFE: I think about killing myself every day

I was amazed to find out that the number one killer of young gay men was not HIV, it’s suicide, but yet it seems all the gay community talks about is HIV and STIs. You want to talk about stigma?Read more

'Top 4 Top' - What happens when you're both tops?

Wait, you don't bottom?Read more